Personal Message to my Cousin, Donna

Today is an extra special day for me and I’m sure for others in my family as well.  It’s October 8th, which marks my cousin Donna’s birthday.  Donna and I shared our birthdays every year for as long as I can remember.  Our birthdays are exactly one month apart. I always thought of her as the sister I never had not knowing many years later that I did indeed have a sister – but that’s another story!

Every year on our birthdays, we would call each other.  Donna would brag that she was the oldest and I should respect my elders; I reminded her that I was younger and always would be, and she should pave the way for me!  It was always a wonderful chat as we may not talk throughout the rest of the year, and I looked forward to it because within one month we would get to catch up twice. I did miss making a call one year, and trust me, she never let me forget it!

Donna passed away three years’ ago from a long, fought battle with cancer on October 26th.  I was able to call on her birthday before her passing.  The call was short and sweet, and it was treasured as I knew it would probably be our last birthday chat for a long time.

Donna was always a very giving person during her lifetime, keeping everyone in her thoughts.  Whether it be a good or hard time in my life, she always had a thoughtful way of reaching out to let me know she was always there.

Now, even three years after her passing, she is still reaching out and giving.  I have been very blessed by being able to do this blog and video interviews with family members.  It gives me the chance to get to know everyone a little bit more than I already did, and I look forward to doing many more interviews in the future.

I want to thank Donna for her thoughtful contribution and donation to the We Are Family Briggs blog, encouraging me to keep it going.  I hope to do this for a long time, and I hope that it will be in the family records for even longer.

Happy birthday, Donna!  I miss our chats. You will always be in my thoughts and prayers especially on this day as I said happy birthday to you the past two years. You will always hold a special place in my heart.  Now I can say I didn’t miss a year wishing you a happy birthday thanks to this blog! 

Thank you, dear cousin, Love Vicky

Donna & me on my wedding day – August 28, 1993

2 thoughts on “Personal Message to my Cousin, Donna

  1. Irene E. Layton's avatar Irene E. Layton

    Thank you Vickie for sharing this. So special. Donna is so missed but we know she is in a much better place celebrating with the Lord.
    Lots of love. Aunt Ev

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